Domestic Violence Center Shut Down for Being a Total Fraud

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A Fulton-based resource center for battered women has been ordered by the state to shut down all operations. This shouldn't be terribly difficult since the Battered Mother's Resource Fund (BMRF) never actually did anything anyway.

Missouri Attorney General Chris Koster said in a news release that the BMRF, which is owned by Phillip Baney, solicited donations to help victims of domestic violence, but never actually implemented any of the programs it advertised, including community outreach seminars, a national database of shelters and other organizations that provided assistance to battered women and children, a Mother's Assistance Fund and a ranch for kids who had been harmed by domestic violence.

"Most heart wrenching is that BMRF may have prevented domestic violence victims from reaching out for legitimate assistance by claiming that most domestic violence shelters separate mothers from their children," Koster said in the press release. "This is not true and it is a dangerous statement that could keep a domestic violence victim from seeking assistance for fear of losing her children. Every domestic violence shelter in Missouri accepts children."

BMFR's crisis hotline was not a total fraud, though it did not operate 24 hours as advertised, and the toll-free number shared a telephone line with Baney's home phone and Internet connection. It's staffed sporadically by Baney, his wife and a neighbor, none of whom have any training or experience in helping domestic violence victims.

Koster ordered BMFR to shut down its website and stop soliciting donations immediately. Baney has until October 31 to dissolve BMFR as a corporate entity.

BMFR's official domain name, www.batteredmothers.org, expired July 9, but it still maintains a site on MySpace.

Comments (6)

George R. McCasland says:

Aren't all shelters a little fraudulent as they don't actively reach out and help, or openly reject, 39% of the victims of domestic violence, AND THEIR CHILDREN?

Annette's Story: The Other Face Of Domestic Violence
http://TheOtherFaceOfDomesticAbuse-Annettes-Story.org

Posted On: Friday, Jul. 30 2010 @ 5:17PM
Fred says:

Oh, dear, if they start shutting down all the domestic violence centers which do more harm than good, we'll have none left!

Posted On: Friday, Jul. 30 2010 @ 5:34PM
Anon says:

As long as there is no Battered Fathers Resource Fund, this is poetic justice.

Posted On: Sunday, Aug. 1 2010 @ 7:06PM
Amy says:

George-There are domestic violence shelters that actually do EXACTLY what they claim to do. I happen to work for one that does outreach work, trains law enforcement and other community members, and has an after school program for children,in addition to serving victims & their children in the shelter. Please know that not all shelters are fraudulent. There are many of us out there who are truly here for victims, including male victims, and their children who see and sense the abuse every day!!

Posted On: Monday, Aug. 2 2010 @ 7:49AM
Susie says:

Amy, in what planet are these "shelters" located. Anon, we need more jails for the abusers using the courts to continue with the abuse and then standing there like they are the victims of violence. Abusive father's do not need funding they deserve jail for life in order to protect the victims and eliminated the need for shelters.

Posted On: Monday, Aug. 2 2010 @ 10:11PM
Phillip says:

To use Susie's language ... "Abusive do not need funding; they deserve jail for life in order to protect the victims..."

Susie, surely you are not suggesting that all abuse is committed by fathers? Statistically, women commit a significant percentage of "abuse" and actually commit a majority of abuse against children of divorcing parents. Such abuse is almost always highly detrimental to their development and emotional well-being, if not life-long in its consequences.

True, while some DV shelters do good work for people in crises, many so-called shelters do more long-term harm than good. They certainly tend to have a gender bias against men and regularly propagate false statistics in order to bolster their revenue through donations and taxpayer-funded grants.

Posted On: Thursday, Aug. 12 2010 @ 2:03PM

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