The Rev. Kimberly Banks-Brown stands for marriage equality
Same-sex marriage supporters
outnumbered the antis by four-to-one -- even more, by some counts -- at last night's
National Organization for Marriage rally and Show Me No Hate counter-action in
Clayton. The rallies came on the heels of the repeal of Prop 8, California's
anti-gay-marriage amendment.
Overall, the two groups'
demonstrations were pretty civil. NOM had a permit from St.
LouisCounty
police to occupy Memorial Park, the green space on the campus of the police
department. Plenty of county officers were on hand to keep the rainbow-flag
waving counter-demonstrators corralled on the sidewalk, where their signs
elicited plenty of supportive honks from passing cars.
"Using religion to exclude people is
immoral," said the Rev. Rebecca Turner, executive director of Faith Aloud, a
religious group that supports reproductive health and rights. "I believe that God
made everyone and loves everyone and accepts everyone. "This is a positive event," said Scott
Emmanuel, co-founder of the event and husband of Ed Reggi, founder of Show Me
No Hate. "We know that public opinion is shifting."
The NOMmers were safely far back
from prying eyes, carrying signs about states' rights and kids deserving both a
mother and father. Their half-dozen or so speakers characterized San
Francisco judge Vaughn Walker's overturning Prop 8 as
trampling states' rights.
A few called it a culture war, and
there were some great groaners:
Bev Ehlen, state director for uber-conservative
Concerned Women for America,
called her group "the nation's largest women's public policy group," pause, "that
appreciates men." Ha ha! Because there are totally man-hating lesbians holding
signs over there.
John Splinter, executive director
of the St. Louis office of the
National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families, asked how many
in the crowd of about 60 were married. Most hands went up, and he went on to
talk about how married people would die for their wives. But plenty of those
hands belonged to women -- women presumably straight-married to dudes. Guess
they wouldn't die for their husbands?
But Show Me No Hate folks and NOM
folks were both adamant that they wouldn't be confrontational with one another,
and they weren't.
Upon checking several sources (Parks department, County police and fight department) there were at the very least 400 pro-marriage equality supporters in Clayton. NOM brought into town 15 of the 50 they managed to wrangle. (I smell astroturf with those paid NOM staffers and interns!)
Most of the NOM supporters were old angry Tea Party enthusiasts that were enticed to come by Dr. Gina Loudon's blog entries on the day of the event. However, the TP has yet to come out on social platforms like marriage equality or adoption by LGBT parents.
Libertarians were out in Clayton, on the side of gay-marriage advocates. It will interesting to see how this plays out in Missouri.
4 to 1 is not an exaggeration at all. There were a lot of folks who came early and left early, others who arrived late. Right around 7:00 there were more than 200--there were several people counting. If everyone who was there at any point had registered in some way, I believe the count would have been at least 300. At all times there were gay marriage supporters on both sides of Central, a few on Meramec, and others driving around in cars with signs. At 7:00, supporters covered well more than the full city block of Central. It was a great turnout, and the spirit was friendly and happy. I was proud to be a part of such a positive group of people.
My husband and I married in St. Louis many years ago. At the time, we were criticized by friends for thinking that "love conquers all". They were wrong. Love does conquer all. I'm heartened and proud of St. Louis for this counter demonstration of Christian principle and love. Please keep up the good work.
I didn't count noses, but 4 to 1 sounds about right from my observation. Gay marriage supporters pretty well packed the sidewalk all the way from the park up to the corner of Central and Forsyth.
But the 50 NOM people matched her memory.
Melissa, I checked again with someone who was there, and she didn't see 200. But she wasn't counting like you were.
Hi Bill,
Crowd estimation is an inexact science at best, but I counted noses last night and got in the neighborhood of 50 NOM folks and well over 200 Show Me No Hate/Faith Aloud/PROMO and other counter-protesters. And some reports had the number of No Hate folks at more than 400.
I heard the Gay Marriage Supporters had a slightly larger crowd, but not 4 to 1.