Homicide: After Losing Two Friends to Abuse, Brandy Costello Launches Anti-Violence Effort

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Latasha Flowers
As we reported last week, police say St. Louis resident Terence Anderson shot his girlfriend Nichole Haynes, 32, in the head as she was trying to escape. Haynes' fifteen-year-old daughter was caught in the gunfire and sent to the hospital -- but she survived. Anderson was eventually chased down by police who shot and killed him.

"We grew up together," Brandy Costello, a close friend of Haynes, tells Daily RFT. "She was a very loving, very good person."

The tragic death has encouraged Costello to spring into action, she says, in part, because this is not the first close friend she has lost to domestic violence.

In 2009, Latasha Flowers, at age 29, was shot and killed by her husband -- who, two years later, pleaded guilty and was sentenced to eighteen years.

"I was traumatized," says Costello, 32, who grew up in St. Louis and runs an online apparel company. "I had just talked to [Flowers] the day before.... She was near the point of leaving him. She would say, 'I just need to get out.' And I would say, 'We can do this.' ....She was going to come over the next day."

But Costello never saw Flowers again.

"I didn't do anything about it," Costello recalls of the time after her passing.

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She says she was shocked and didn't know how to react or what she could do in response to such a horrible incident of violence.

Then she got the call last week -- her childhood friend, Nichole Haynes, had been shot and killed.

"I dropped the phone, and I said, 'OK, God, what now? What now?'" she says. "I couldn't cry.... I just kept saying, 'Now what?'"

She continues, "I heard God say, 'Do something about it.'"

Continue for more of our interview with Brandy Costello.

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mistress0726
mistress0726

I'm so proud of you women of God for standing up for a cause that is so worthy of ones time....Blessings..I'm sorry for your loss

JamesMadison
JamesMadison topcommenter

Women who tolerate any violent behavior from their husband/boyfriend need to be educated. The violence will not end. Do not believe the creep who is abusing you. LEAVE NOW! Yes, it is difficult. It will be a hardship. But you will be alive. The abuser will say anything to keep you there, but do not believe a word of it. GET OUT NOW! The education these abused women need is that there are many places they can go for help. Next - file charges against them and get a restraining order. Let the justice system put these creeps behind bars. Testify to make sure the creep never can harm another woman again.

DoucheMcGee
DoucheMcGee topcommenter

Why not just "Stop Violence" regardless of who it's against?

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