The Man I've Been Seeing Online Doesn't Know I'm a Man. Help!

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STEPFATHER WON'T MOVE OUT
Dear Willie D:

My stepdad asked if he could come stay with me for a couple of weeks till he could get on his feet. I said OK, but it's been four months and he's still here. Not only that, he also moved his three young children in one day while I was at work. He's not working or even trying to find work. I told him he has one month to figure out what he's going to do, then he has to go, but he still sits around every day doing nothing.

I have a heart and don't want to see the kids on the street, but I can't afford them anymore. I am a single mother with children of my own. Please help!

Single Mother:

Stick to your move-out date. If you have to, change the locks. Your stepfather is a bum and bums don't stop leeching voluntarily. You have to cut them off.

I have a heart too, but I also have a brain. When I walked into my house and saw those three kids, my heart would have said, "Awww, they're so precious." But my brain would have said, "OK, all y'all stand up. I don't know where you're going, but you got to get the hell up out of here!"

Your stepfather and his kids are not your responsibility and you are not running a homeless shelter. Kick them out.


MY FIRST TATTOO
Dear Willie D:

I've been a big fan of your music, both solo and with the Geto Boys, for a long time now. I've always admired your rapping ability because I feel like your words are more heartfelt and realer than any other rapper's out there.

Since the Geto Boys are my favorite group and I have been so influenced by you guys I was thinking of making my first tattoo say "Geto Boys For Life." I was just wondering what you think and if I have your approval?

Loyal Fan:

It couldn't have been more than ten minutes ago that I was admiring a photo my buddy Mike Judge posted on Twitter of a character from his film Idiocracy, tatted on the arm of a fan. So yeah, you're good. I'm honored.

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22 comments
Chris Novak
Chris Novak

A similar thing happened to me for two years. ...and boy was i disappointed when I found out I was talking with an egg the whole time! I hadn't a clue!

Chris Hatch
Chris Hatch

Your ass will make you shit your meal 'Cause it's die muthafuckas, die muthafuckas still

Meg Mertz
Meg Mertz

Sounds like this is a case for the catfish boys!

deckerm63
deckerm63

sounds more like a pen pal screwed  up.. on line is NOT a relationship...and Y did u start a profile being a women when U are a MAN?

Diana Cobos
Diana Cobos

Just like that football player that met, fell in love with and mourned the death of a completely fictitious woman he met on line.

Tawanda Lock
Tawanda Lock

I don't understand how people think they are in a relationship with someone they have never seen in person.

Susan Wolters
Susan Wolters

How many Jerry Springer episodes do you have to see, to know this will never develop into a relationship?

Susan Wolters
Susan Wolters

Apparently you don't talk about EVERYthing, otherwise he'd actually know you were a man. Wouldn't it be hilarious if he was a she, and she sent you nude pics of someone else? This isn't a relationship, and you haven't been dating, you've been playing a trick on another person for two years. You really DO need help, professional help.

Jason Goad
Jason Goad

I agree with SlicRic , honesty is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Just like a house , you can build what you want on top of it. But it will never survive!

Steve Dixon
Steve Dixon

Yes, because he is the one answering the questions.

Rick Kohn
Rick Kohn

dishonesty is not the way to start a relationship.

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